Hi! I'm Antoinette
My mission is to support you through change.

A 57 years young US expat living in Cyprus. Throughout the two decades of raising our son in a majority challenging and complicated marriage, I realized I had lost myself by constantly putting everyone and everything first, instead of prioritizing my own well-being. This resulted in my inner light dimming and me becoming a mere shell of the independent, confident, generous, and fun person I used to be. I let stress, constant negativity, financial instability, and overall unhappiness control and consume all aspects of my life, which became my “norm”. Externally, I falsely appeared strong, happy, and confident, while internally, I was hollow, lonely, insecure, and depressed. I knew I had to take control and make serious decisions for my mental health and overall well-being. Through my rediscovery and reawakening journey, I discovered substantial numbers of couples (specifically women) are in similar scenarios and circumstances. I started MyOwnStatusQuo to provide cost-effective solutions and resources to support mid-life women with taking the first step to begin this necessary, emotional, and ultimately fulfilling journey for POSITIVE change.
Empowering mid-life women “HOW TO” achieve the lifestyle they deserve NOW is no longer my dream, it is my new Reality!
Exemplary Life Changing Advice
“Antoinette’s journey in seeking creditable and affordable solutions for grey divorce, menopause maintenance, and life-coaching guidance is nothing short of transformative. She vetted experienced professionals who blend compassion with clear, actionable insight and offer a lifeline to women navigating some of the most complex transitions of their lives. Whether facing the emotional challenges of a mid-life separation or the identity shifts that often accompany menopause, Antoinette’s providers empower her clients with clarity, confidence, and renewed purpose. Her passion to help other mid-life women is setting a new standard in holistic mid-life support.”
Sheri L. - 58yo, USA
Because all know, it takes a village.
And You are not Alone!